‘We’re ready for something, just not sex’
There are loads of things you can do that don’t involve full sex and spending time getting to know each other’s bodies can actually help you relax more if you do decide to have full sex.
Kissing is the obvious starting point and this can lead to touching and maybe oral sex later, but only if you’re ready. If you spent time taking it slowly, it also gives you time to decide if they’re the right person for you.
